Saying Goodbye is Tough

Monday

An early start to ensure the we were at the airport with plenty of time.  It was a bank holiday in England so Ella was able to come with us to Paddington Station.  We appreciated the help as my suitcase has a very dodgy wheel and had developed a mind of its own.  We sad goodbye which feels like my heart is being ripped out of my chest, even though we've done it so many times before.

We headed to the Elizabeth Line, which takes you directly to Heathrow and had the bonus of air conditioning.  Even at 8.00 in the morning, the temperature was starting to climb.  Ella had a gym class and then traveled out of the city (can't remember where) to spend the day with a friend.  It was a great way for her to keep busy, but was also cooler and included a pool.

Our trip to Heathrow was uneventful as was the airport process, except that I had ti have my feet scanned separately.  I was wearing slip on sandals so not exactly sure what they were looking for.  Our Singapore Airlines flight was on an A380, which is always a treat.  As you would expect, the service was great, seats comfortable and a spare one beside me.  It was probably the most consistently bumpy flight we have ever had, nothing serious, but still enough to be aware of - thank goodness for drugs!

Tuesday

Because our flight left at 11.30 am, we had a very short night and landed in Singapore early on Tuesday morning.  David's brother had given us directions to us a cheap taxi, rather then public transport, and it was such a good move.  Great to arrive at there place, but the day was a bit of a blur, just trying to stay awake.  We had lunch at the foodcourt opposite their apartment block and went for a walk in the park.  Visit to the local supermarket and more giant, delicious blueberries.  The day passed by in a bit of a blur, trying to stay awake and keep cool.  We did teach Elton and Jacintha to pay the card game Dutch, though I'm not sure that were got the rules right with serious brain fog.

Bed in an air-conditioned room was so good!

Wednesday

Woke up a couple of times during the night and then slept until 8.30.  David couldn't believe it and said that he had to check to make sure that I was still breathing.

Unfortunately his feet had swollen significantly, a mixture of heat and long haul flying.  We got him some compression socks and left him at home with is feet up.

I went with Elton and Jacintha to another food hall - thank goodness for air con on the trains and buses.  We then went to Decathlon, our absolute favourite sporting/outdoor goods store.  Picked up a few things, but will go back tomorrow if David is feeling up to it.

When we got back his feet were feeling a bit better, so went for a walk in the local park.  Saw turtles sunning themselves on the rocks and a brown squirrel.  Apparently there are otters in the park as well, but none showed themselves today.  Not as many steps as we have been doing on previous days.

Going out for dinner at a local food hall.  We are going to miss access to the variety of delicious food that is in walking distance.

London is Burning

 Saturday

The temperatures were forecast to be high again so we decided to go exploring early.  We travelled to The Hermitage Riverside Memorial Garden, near Tower Bridge.  The garden and memorial sculpture are in memory of the East London Civilians who were killed in the Second World War, and the suffering of those who lost relatives, friends and homes.  It was a lovely peaceful green area beside the Thames River.  It was also a designated place that you can legitimately fly a drone.  David was able to 'explore' a different aspect of the river.

From there we walked across Tower Bridge and down a lane to Horselydown Steps, located just east of the Bridge.  They are some of the oldest surviving 'Waterman's stairs.  Historically, the banks of the Thames feature hundreds of such access points which were used by watermen to tai passengers across the river or to old and unload cargo.  At low tide you can walk directly onto the riverbank but, unfortunately the river was high when we visited.  Directly across the river is the MI6 building - a James Bond moment!

We had the mandatory visit to Buckingham Palace where the crowds were really small.  Not sure if it was because we were there early or because of the heat.  Anyway, it was really pleasant.  Continued across the road to Hyde Park, and some shade, and walked to the New Zealand War Memorial.  The memorial is beautiful in its simplicity and, even in the middle of a busy city, a place of peace and reflection.

Ella had finished at the gym so we travelled to Bayswater and met her there.  The hot weather was a good excuse to sample another Knoops chocolate milkshake.  Just as delicious as yesterday.

David decided to head home and we went to IKEA to get a few more things, now that Ella has a flat to move into.  Love that shop plus it was much cooler than being outside.

The afternoon was spent trying to keep cool.  Finishing off with Malaysian takeaway from Queens Park village

Sunday

We treated ourselves to a visit to the local market again and bought a bunch of peonies, perfect as the ones from last week were starting to drop.  Ella commented that it wasn't as busy as usual - think many people are avoiding the heat.

Apart from a walk to the supermarket and a walk in the park, we have just been pottering.  Washing was crispy dry out on the deck and Ella has been working on her tan.

Hard to believe that our time here is nearly over and bags are nearly packed ready to go in the morning.  No matter how many times you visit London there are always so many interesting and different places to visit.  We are already planning for our next visit.

Flat Hunting

Ella was up early and off to the gym and then we walked to meet her and Samarah when they had finished.  Decided that it would be sensible to get out early as predicted to be hot later in the day.

Samarah left us as she had to get ready for work and we walked the length of the Portobello Road Market one of the most famous and historical street markets on the world.  It is best known for its antiques, fashion, food, crafts, books and music, along with some delicious looking street food.  As we were there earlier in the day, it wasn't too busy and so we could enjoy the sights, sounds and smells without having to dodge the crowds.  Also enjoyed the pretty coloured houses around the Portobello Road area.

Ella and I had a chocolate milkshake from Knoops - possibly the best I have ever had and was definitely perfect on such a hot day.

Following our market visit, we went with Ella to view a flat in Bayswater.  It was in the same building as one we had previously looked at and, thankfully, is perfect for what she is looking for.  The landlords are two sisters whose Grandmother bought the buildings after the Second World War.  They run it as a family business and were lovely to deal with.  Ella feels really positive about the move and we are just relieved that she will have somewhere nice to live, where she feels safe.  The move in date is the end of June which works perfectly, as the lease ends on the current flat around the same time.  I think we will all sleep better tonight.

Caught the bus back to the flat has it was starting to get really warm.  Apart from a walk to a quirky wee gift shop, we have spent the afternoon trying to avoid the heat.  Defrosting the freezer was a pleasurable task in this weather.  Probably a good chance to acclimatise before our Singapore stopover in a few days.

Exploring Interesting Places

 Monday (cont). Dinner was delicious - Pad Thai, and great company.  Very pleasant evening all round.

Tuesday

We travelled into the city to St Batholomew's Hospital.  The North Wing and Hogarth Stair were part of the original administration block and have recently been restored and repaired.  The North Wing was built in the 1730s and is open to the public on Monday and Tuesday, for free  The murals, painted by Hogarth, include the Pool of Bethesda and the Good Samaritan, and the ceiling of the Great Hall intricately gilded.  It was an absolute gem and well worth a visit.  We also had a quick look at the hospital museum but it was full of scary looking ancient medical devices!

From there we travelled to Bayswater to view a couple of potential flats for Ella.  The area is perfect, near Kensington Garden and close to Queensway, with restaurants, supermarkets and a range of really nice shops.  Neither of the flats were really options - they are so small and crazy expensive.

Back on the tube and a walk to the supermarket before heading 'home'.  We did a few more chores around the flat and had dinner ready for Ella when she got home from work.

Wednesday

Back on the tube and 'escorted' Ella into work.  The tube was crazy busy, apparently not normal but a reminder that we are in a huge city.

We were going to Sicilian Avenue a Grade 2 listed Edwardian avenue in Holborn. but unfortunately it was closed due to some extensive restoration work.  The buildings were started in the early 1900s, designed in a Baroque Revival style, using Italian marble and terracotta, with Italian and classical motifs.  Even though we could only see a small number of buildings, they were pretty impressive. 

Then on to the British Museum where we visited the clock and watch, and the money exhibitions.  Both really interesting.  We could have stayed there for hours, but even passing through the other exhibits was worth the time.

From there we walked to Covent Garden with a stop for a hot chocolate along the way.  I remembered Hotel Chocolate from when were here previously and it was just as good.  Seventy percent chocolate with chocolate whipped cream on the top.  The perfect injection of energy to keep us on the go.  Covent Garden is a lovely spot and we stopped to enjoy a string trio playing classical music.

We tubed to Waterloo and walked to Leake Street, also known as the Banksy Tunnel.  It is a road tunnel in Lambeth where graffiti is legal and promoted.  The street is about 300 metres long and runs under the platform and tracks of Waterloo Station.  The walls are decorated with graffiti, initially created during the Cans Festival organised by Banksey in 2008.  It is a riot of colour and different styles and a feast for the eyes.

In the afternoon we walked to Kilburn Road, about 15 minutes, to the closest Lloyds Bank, to close an account that we have had for about 35 years.  Funny, it was way easier to close the account than it had been to open it all those years ago.

I later caught the train into Oxford Circus to meet Ella and we had dinner at Bread Store - the biggest slices of pizza ever seen, and delicious.  We met her friend Samarah and went to the musical The Devil Wears Prada.  Lots of fun and the costumes were stunning - I love going to the theatre in London.

Thursday

Up early, which was a bit of a struggle after a late night, and Ella and I headed to Slone Square and the Chelsea Flower Show.  There were lots of people wearing floral dresses, comfortable shoes and flower fascinators.  When we arrived at the show it wasn't too busy but, within a couple of hours it was a heaving mass.  We visited the Grand Pavilion first, which was a good move, and saw amazing small gardens and floral arrangements.  It was interesting seeing the different varieties of flowers and the ways in which they were combined.  It was a bucket list moment for me and I was in my happy place.  It was hard to get a decent look at the gardens outside, due to the crowds, but we did enjoy seeing what we could.  Lots of stalls selling an array of flower and gardening related goods.  I did treat myself to three metal poppies for my garden - getting them home might be interesting.

The shops and businesses around the Slone Square area had interesting floral and garden related displays that we enjoyed on our walk to and from the station.

Getting back to the tube was crazing.  The crowds heading to the show created a massive jam and we had to battle our way through, trying to go in the opposite direction.  So glad that we had gone early.  On the way back we went to Ikea where Ella got lots of ideas for things for her (potential) new flat.  We also went to Goldhawk Road, where there are numerous fabric stores.  Again I had to be reserved, but Ella found some lovely black suiting to make herself a new blazer. 

David had been out for a bike ride and managed to get back just before us as he had the key.  Weather is warming up ahead of the predicted heatwave.

We have extended our time here for an additional two days, felt that we wanted to support Ella for as long as possible, so now fly out Monday morning.  Means we will have two less days in Singapore, but we're happy with the plan change and we get to have the weekend together.

London Stuff

 Sunday

We went back to the Queen's Park Sunday market which was just as interesting the second time.  Lots of delicious fresh produce on display.  David had a 'gourmet farm sausage' with fried red onion and a couple of sauces.  Have to say, it was absolutely delicious.  Bought a bunch of peonies for Ella (loving getting to enjoy spring flowers twice in a year) and a loaf of ciabatta bread, good enough to have for lunch with just butter on it.

Ella went off to the gym and we went to Poundland (full of cheap stuff) and the local hardware store, to get some more tools for David's DIY repairs.  Ella's supply of tools continues to grow.  Weather has been much cooler and it's been nice just having time to potter close to home.

Walked to the 'big Sainsbury' supermarket in the afternoon to get supplies for dinner.  It is rather nice being able to walk or use public transport to get around, not something we can do at home.  Ella cooked a lovely meal - getting quite used to this life!

Monday 

We were organised early and joined Ella for part of her commute to work.  We left her at Paddington Station and made our way toward Southwark, near London Bridge.  There is a identified area for flying drones and David was keen to have a try.  It was a really interesting area with ruins, older style housing and just down the road, a number of ultra modern commercial buildings.

We hired a couple of Santanda Bikes (Boris Bikes) and cycled along the bike lanes, in the area.  It felt a bit weird riding without a helmet, but the cycle lane kept us away from the double decker buses.  If there wasn't so much traffic, cycling would be a great way to explore the city.

Decided that we needed to do a couple of touristy things, so a visit to Harrods and Hamleys toy store.  Not quite as much fun as when you have small people to buy for, but always worth the visit.  From there we went underground to Leister Square where we met up with our Dunedin friend Elva and her friend Carol.  They have been travelling through Europe and have a few days in London, before exploring more of the UK.  Was so lovely to see Elva and to hear of their adventures to date.

Back to Queens Park to finish off the DIY jobs and clean the oven -isn't that what visiting parents are for!  Having a bit of down time before we catch the tube back into the city.  We are meeting up with three of Ella's school friends and the parents of two of them, for a Thai meal.  Will be a great catch up I'm sure.

Just heard that that planned tube strikes have been cancelled this week which should make getting around much less complicated and time consuming.  The public transport system is so efficient, when it is working well.

Back to London

 Friday

Woke up to rain, the first significant wet weather during all of our travels to date.  Thankfully we only had to travel about 15 minutes to Podgorica airport.  We were both so relieved to return the rental car unscathed - a miracle after driving amongst such crazy drivers.

Airport procedures were just as relaxed leaving as it was when we arrived.  Reminiscent of how things used to be!  Our flight back was fine once we cleared the bumps and it was a great to fly over the lovely green countryside on the way into Gatwick Airport.

We trained directly to Victoria Station where Ella met us and we got to see the office building that she works in.  Back to the flat, unpacked and washing done at 'our' friendly local laundromat.  Was nice to have dinner ready for her when she arrived home last night.

Saturday

Ella met her friend Nina for a gym class and we caught the bus to catch up with them for a coffee.  Nina's two sister's, and her three year old nephew, are visiting and we joined them for a walk in Kensington Gardens.  It was so lovely to hear Jayden's delight in seeing the squirrels - mind you, we love to see them too.

The three of us went to the Westfield Mall at Shepard's Bush, close to where Ella lived when she first came to London.  We have the most delicious Chinese food for lunch.  Ella and I did a bit of retail therapy, just cause we could.

Later this afternoon, David and I walked to Poundland - a bargain shop - to get screwdrivers to add to Ella's tool kit and, hopefully, fix a door for her.  It was amazing the bargains we found!

Loving just hanging out with our girl.

Snakes

 Managed to 'escape' Kotor unscathed, though there were some challenging moments on the way down the hill from our apartment.  At one point the road was blocked by a police car and there wasn't enough room for us to squeeze past.  Instead of waiting patiently until we could move, the people behind us just kept blasting their horns and gesticulating wildly.  Not quite sure what we were expected to do!

Our route to Podgorica took us along the coast past lots of smaller seaside towns.  Had planned to stop at Budva to look at the old town, but the town was busy and the thought of negotiating more narrow roads was just too hard.  More glorious views across the bay.

Just to ensure that we got plenty of exercise for the day, we stopped off near Sutomore Beach to climb to the Haj Nehaj fortress.  It sits 231 m above sea level, the path is stoney and steep.  We surprised ourselves by managing the climb in about 20 minutes, but it took equally long to climb back down due to the slippery stones.  The ruins of the fort were amazing and well worth the climb.  Now that I know that there are snakes in Montenegro. I was on the lookout the whole time, especially as the path was narrow with long grass and weeds alongside.  It was a relief to get back down to the road without any unwanted surprises, only to see a snake slithering across the tarmac in front of us!  We did see another one on the road, but sadly it met an untimely death.

Even though we haven't seen any bears, we have heard cuckoo in the forest, such a cool bird call and they sound just like the clocks!

We had a very pleasant picnic at Sutomore Beach, after Google Maps took us down a number of one way roads the wrong way.  Funnily enough no-one seemed to notice and we even saw some locals doing the same thing.  It was a lovely quiet spot with only a few tourists, but they were clearly preparing for the summer trade.

Onward to Podgorica with a stop of at Niagara Waterfall on the Cijevna River which originates in Albania.    There are differing views about whether or not the waterfall has been formed by nature, or from a man-made dam, but it was pretty impressive either way.  The strange thing was that there is a restaurant on the bank of the river where diners sit outside watching the river, and you had to walk through it to get to the falls.  Guess it's one way to get potential customers to notice you.

We found our apartment for tonight, again it's in a large building.  We have spent some of the evening standing on the balcony just watching every day life play out.   We walked to the Millennium Bridge over the Moraca River and then along the river bank to the stone bridge spanning the Ribnica River.  Just because we need more steps, we climbed up to another ruin, before heading back to the apartment.

Thoughts about Montenegro:  beautiful country with incredible contrasts from snowy mountains to beautiful coastlines, crazy drivers and impossible roads, on the cusp of becoming over-run by tourists.  I think we have had the pleasure of visiting before it potentially looses some of its magic.